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    1/16/2006

    多称赞少批评

    发觉中国有个传统,那就是很喜欢批评人而很少是称赞人的,像某些父母老是说人家的孩子多么好多么好,对于自己的孩子做的多好也会批评他做的不够好,同学间工作或玩耍里……到处都是这种现象,这样做好像一点好处都没有,为什么不吸取一下外国的做法多称赞少批评呢!?

      首先为什么要少批评,因为第一你伤了人家的心,或许嘴里不说但是不保证他有其他想法;第二你批评人家会使人受到打击,干什么事也会提心吊胆拉,怎么能发挥的正常甚至更好呢?!第三要知道人谁无过!人家好不容易才犯一次错你就拿放大镜来看了,再好的人也会被你贬得一文不值。第四对你也没好处。

      其次为什么要称赞,因为第一你使人家更加努力,这样就达到了你本来想要的目的。第二你不会伤人家的心,反而可能会觉的你讲的很对很好。第三他意识到自己的缺点了。第四对你没坏处。

       因此综合来说多称赞是很有用的,而多批评则是坏处多多的……

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    Jovifarwrote:
    当然不是拉。。顾着搞其他的事呢。。
    Apr. 22
    lish leewrote:
    你好久都没更新了哦,,顾着打机?陪GF?嘻嘻,,
    Apr. 2
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    jovifar wrote:
    哈哈。。你也是。。
    Jan. 22
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    【小彭彭】 wrote:
    哈哈哈,我回家啦...88...新年恭喜发财!
    Jan. 22
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    LukeLin1026 wrote:
    ^_^

    举双手赞成...

    被人一口否定的感觉真不好受...

    不过我还是要从自己做起...

    有时觉得自己也很...呵呵
    Jan. 21

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